It is a common for every creatures that they like to do some easy and fun things, but when they encounter some hard works, they will feel uncomfortable and be unwilling to do it. For example, our teacher give a group work to us, and our group have a week to do it. The deadline is Thursday, and I mistake it for Wednesday. So my partners are not worried about it, and delay it. At last half an hour to the deadline, we are driven by panic monster and hurry up to do it. but at this time, the Luck Fairy abandon us, leaving the despaired us in miserable. At the last second, we try our beast to hand up our homework, but failed... I think in everyone's mind there living a evil to call you not in hurry, there are still some time to do it. While at the coming of the deadline, you will live in hot water and your brain is messy to finish a bad work, which many be a homework or a job table.
I have encounter many people who are miserable for their procrastination, including me. So I begin to consider why we will feel painful, anyhow, we have done our work before the deadline ( except some special situation...)
my conclusion is that there are two kinds of procrastination. A short term procrastination, which has the deadline, will constrain your procrastination in a limited time. When the panic monster wake up at the dawn of deadline, and it will urge you hurry up to do your work. So its influence is short and instant. Another kind of procrastination is a long term without a deadline, such as exercise planning, personal ability improving, and so on. All of this is up to you, no deadline to fasten you. You do it or not do it do not have obvious influence on your life. While, after many years latter, you will regret for you did not take action to do something, resulting your failed life now. Taking action reduce your self-blame and pain in future and now.
Say is easy, do is hard. After all, surfing on the internet for the scandal or a ' hit' news about a famous people or something have nothing with you, like the death toll happen in another country. Our life is occupied by trifle things, so we do not have time to do important things. Just like now, I must finish my blogger, but I will spend some time to have look at some irrelevant information.
Fun and easy is part of our life, but as a rational man, we still need to do some hard and unpleasant thing to improve our ability and achieve our goals.
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